Self-improvement has gone mainstream. In recent years, since I

I wrote articles and submitted them to article sites, I did

noticed that the "Self-improvement" category appeared.

lately when he had never been there before. For me this is great news.


But what does it actually mean to 'improve yourself'? What are we really?

improve when we improve ourselves? And which 'self' do we improve? Each of us has two "selves" - our wounded self and our central Self. WE

The central self is our true self, our natural soul self - our essence. Our core

Self is our passion, our joy, our gifts and talents, our ability to love, our

creativity. We enter this life as our central Self, and when this is the Self

loved and appreciated by our parents, we naturally continue to be our God-

gifts and talents and manifest the fullness of our being. This Self

he wants to improve by learning the skills necessary to express himself fully. But when this Self is not seen and valued in the way we needed,

create an alternative self, a self that we hope to gain control over

the love we need and avoid the pain we can't handle - a self to help

we feel safe. This is our false self, our wounded self, our egoic self. This

itself is filled with the false beliefs we absorbed as we grew up

up - beliefs that ultimately limit our true central Self. Not this in itself

it needs improvement - it needs healing.


The term "self-improvement" can sometimes be a bit misleading,

because we don't want to improve our wounded selves. We do not want

to improve the ways we lie, manipulate and avoid in our efforts

be in control to get love and avoid pain. We do not want

improve our many addictions to substances and processes. we do not

we want to improve our anger, our respect, our withdrawal and ours

resistence.


We want to cure it.


Healing and improving are not the same thing. We can definitely improve on skills. We can improve

Sport, art, music, writing, cooking. We can improve our health and

Well-being by improving our diet and exercise program. We can improve

knowing that we must be more successful professionally and

Silver. Maybe we can improve our relationships by learning new things

communication skills. But what happens if you gain new knowledge and skills?

it does not improve our health, or our ability to earn money, or ours

proportions? What if learning new skills doesn't bring us more joy?

and inner peace? It can mean healing the underlying fears

and false beliefs that make us feel anxious, depressed, stressed, guilty

ridden, shameful, withdrawn, angry, scolding or sad.


Sometimes self-improvement just means practicing one skill and others

sometimes it means we have to participate in a deep healing process.

For example, many people try to improve their health by losing weight

and sport. But when their uncured binge lurks

pain, they may not be able to change their diet easily. They may have to

open to a healing process to eventually get better.


When you're really trying to improve but you're stuck and unable

to make progress or to find that you have no inner joy or peace, you may want to

open up to the possibility of unhealed pain and blocked beliefs

Your progress and causes your pain. It's easy to improve when

nothing blocks the way. But if you have old false beliefs

Your relevance and worth, these beliefs can block your ability to do so

Act lovingly for your own sake. All your efforts to improve yourself will do so

it will not give you the satisfaction you seek if you have beliefs that I am

keeping yourself limited in fully expressing your true core Self. if you are

stuck, then you have to look for a healing process, like the inner one

Attachment process we teach, which will get you out of fears and

beliefs that limit you. The healing of these limiting fears and beliefs opens up

the door to improve your life in every way possible.